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The Theologian and the Farmer

The Theologian and the Farmer

 

A theologian and a farmer stood before an angel in an empty room.
“This exam will determine if you are ready to be used by God,” the angel told them.
“I have been studying for this my entire life,” thought the theologian.
The angel continued, “Let us begin. First question: in the door behind me, there is a man lying in a hospital bed who was unjustly beaten very badly. How many times does Jesus instruct this man to forgive his wrongdoers?”
The theologian glanced over at the farmer, saw that he looked uneasy, and thought, “How sad, even a man who plows in the field all day should know at least this much about the Bible.” He then stood straight with his chest out and answered, “In the book of Matthew, chapter 18, verse 22, Jesus tells Peter to forgive ‘seventy times seven times’, which is another way of saying to forgive without limits.”  
“That is correct,” the angel responded.
The theologian smirked and folded his arms.
“Now I will proceed with the next question,” the angel said.
But the farmer, still feeling troubled, asked, “Is the man OK?”
“Who?”
“The one in the hospital bed.”
“He will survive, but he has sustained harsh injuries.”
“Then why are we standing here answering questions? Please let me go next door to find out how I may help him.”
The angel smiled and promptly moved out of his way.

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The Dating Game

“So what happened with Archie?” asked Stephanie, as the two friends made their way into the crowded church fellowship hall after service.

“I told him to take a hike,” Dia responded. “We’ve been going on dates for like three months now, and he still doesn’t wanna commit to a relationship. Can you believe that?”

Stephanie snickered as she grabbed a fresh cup of roasted coffee from a booth a few volunteers had spotlessly prepared earlier, and said, “Sounds like the boy got commitment issues.”

“Sounds like he needs to grow up. He’s only going to keep leading women on.”

“Ugh. What a jerk. How you handling it hon?”

Dia sighed. “It hurts, but I’ll get over it.”

“Aw, it’s his loss anyway,” Stephanie said.

Just then, a woman called out from a table in the corner, “Stephanie! Dia!”

“Uh oh, it’s time to go home,” Dia jokingly murmured.

Stephanie chuckled, and the two made their way through the crowd to the table.

“Would you two ladies like to sign-up for our membership class?” the woman asked.

“Um, I think were OK for now,” Stephanie said. “We’re still checking out churches.”

“But I see you here every week; it’s been four months.”

Dia chuckled uncomfortably and replied, “Yeah, we like it here and all, but…we’re just still not sure yet.”

“Oh,” the woman replied.  

“Thanks for asking,” Stephanie said, as she slowly backed away. “We really appreciate it. You have a good day!”

“Yeah, take care,” Dia said, while she followed her friend’s lead. “We’ll catch you next week though!”

The two quickly turned and walked away.

“Jeez, why’d she have to make things all weird,” Stephanie asked, as she took a sip from the delectable coffee.

 

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Dear God

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Dear God

For many years, I wanted to write a book that connects with children, but I couldn’t recall the emotions enough to give an honest account. However, my own kids have refreshed my memory and given me insight into how a child so often feels helpless, misunderstood, and dismissed. This has inspired me to publish my first book geared towards both children (ages 7+) and adults. “Dear God” will give kids an opportunity to feel understood and the rest of us a flashback into those formative years of our lives. And hopefully through it, we can all become better.

*100% of any profits will go towards our beloved church, Hope East.

** Special shoutout to the super talented Esther Oh who illustrated the book. Thank you for making my dream project come true.

“After his parents' divorce, Ness and his brother move into a new apartment with their mother. As Ness starts the fourth grade and longs for the past, he writes letters to God in search for answers. Through expressing his sorrow, anger, and doubt, Ness comes to discover that God works in unexpected ways.”

Link to purchase.

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Moving to Western Nassau

Dear Church,

As many of you are aware, Evergreen Daycare is shutting down at the end of the year. As a result, we have been diligently searching for a new home the last two months. My process has been to allow God to lead us by closing and opening doors.

We inquired into 25+ locations in Eastern Queens but none were available or had adequate space for our church. When it became clear that God was closing these doors, we inquired into parts of Western Nassau. After looking into another 20+ spaces in Western Nassau, we came across a location in Great Neck that seemed open to having us. However, we heard just last week that the board had taken a different direction and that door was now closed. This process has been incredibly deflating for me personally, and that night I cried out to God in frustration.

However, the next morning I received advice from one of our members to inquire about a space at the Community Reformed Church of Manhasset on 90 Plandome Road, Manhasset. The church informed me that they had an extra building that they were not using on Sundays, and that they would love for us to use it as our meeting space. I took a look with our staff and we came to the conclusion that this was the opportunity that we had been praying for! There is adequate worship space, many rooms, a parking lot, and it is right across the LIRR. Our church council met last night and officially approved the location. Thus, this will be our new home starting on January 2, 2022. (We will also be amending our church name from "Hope East Queens" to "Hope East.")

I understand that change can be difficult. In Biblical times, whenever change occurred God's people would often get anxious. But God was always faithful with His promises, and like the Old Testament Israelites, He is calling us to trust in His guidance. I want to thank all of you who have prayed for our church these past two months during this time of uncertainty. We have prayed, and God has answered. Now all I can humbly ask from you is that we approach the future with an open mind.

Excited to be on this journey with you!

In Christ,
David

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3 Challenges of Pastoring in NYC During a Pandemic

1) The transience. To be clear, it is hard enough to pastor in NYC and Nassau County, Long Island when there isn’t a pandemic because a good chunk of your congregation will likely move away every year, but 2020 felt like that but on steroids. On the plus side, the exodus from the city has allowed for others to move in, which should theoretically bring in new attendees/members. However, that has often felt like;

2) Starting all over. Personally, the early years of church planting were some of the most exciting years, but also the most tiring. It wasn’t an experience that I thought I would relive, until, of course, I had to relieve it. Building new relationships has always been an integral part of pastoring, but it was equally important to move at a pace that would be sustainable for your own self care. When you move at that pace today, it just feels like you’re lagging behind. And if that’s not enough, there’s the king of all pressures;

3) Polarizing opinions. Remember the days when pastors were the shepherds of the church? For many, that’s no longer case. Christians are now shepherded by Social Media, CNN, Fox News, Google, podcasts and whatever else affirms their biases. As a result, your church members no longer look to you for spiritual guidance, but rather simply want you to just confirm what they already perceive to be the truth. As if this shift in thinking wasn’t challenging enough, now throw in polarizing opinions on reopening, masks, vaccines, racial division, and intense political elections. I can assure you, there isn’t a seminary in the world that would’ve trained you to handle such times.

I know, there’s so many more. And depending on where and how you pastor, these challenges tend to look different. Yesterday I sent my buddy an article titled something like, “Some Pastors are Struggling During Pandemic”. His response? “Some? Who are these mythical people I have never met who aren’t struggling?”

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Latest In Person Service Update!

Dear Hope East Queens,

Starting on Sunday, June 6, 2021, our Leadership Team has decided on the following changes to be made regarding our Sunday services:

1) There will be no more online registration required for the adult service. Instead, we will set a service capacity limit at 65 people for each service. Removing the online registration will allow us to open our doors as a means of evangelism towards the many each week who pass by our service on Bell Blvd. and create a more welcoming environment for them.

2) We will, however, have a sign-in sheet when you first enter in for contact tracing purposes.

3) What won't change yet: Any attendees of any service above the age of two will still be required to wear masks and take temperature checks at the door. Chairs will still be spaced out 6 feet apart and 15 feet away from the worship team.

4) Our in person Kids Ministry (K-5) will still have an online registration so that our children's director Yohan and our volunteers are able to adequately prepare. Parents may sign their children up at this link: Children's Service

5) Parents are still free to attend the adult worship with infants and toddlers (there will be a room in the back they can step away to if necessary). However, we will also set up as an option a dedicated infant/toddler room with toys and a live-streaming of our service upstairs (elevator access is available). Only one adult is allowed in the room with the infant(s)/toddler(s) and the room will be capped at 8 people total. You may register to use the infant/toddler room with this link: Infant/Toddler Room

A Pastoral Message

We understand that many of you are feeling anxious and we hope to do our best to facilitate a space of worship that alleviates some of your concerns. On the other hand, we also understand that many of you may be frustrated because there are now conditions and restrictions that did not exist before. However, I truly believe that the Lord has greater things in store for us, and I would ask that we all patiently wait for his timing to see what the future holds. One thing I have learned this past year and half about our church is that we have an incredibly resilient congregation (evidenced by all of you who have not stopped praying since this pandemic began). You encourage me to confidently know that we will make it through these times as church one way or another. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. – Matthew 7:25

In Christ,

David

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Regathering Plan

Regathering Plan

When Will We Regularly Gather In-Person Again?

On September 13, 2020, we will resume our weekly in-person Sunday worship gatherings in a limited capacity. We will be meeting at the Evergreen Adult Daycare located at 42-19 Bell Blvd., Bayside, New York 11361. Each week there will be two services, 10:30 am and 12 pm. We will adhere to the physical distancing guidelines set forth by the government and have seating arrangements set at a minimum of six feet apart from one another (spouses and families may sit close together).  Due to limited capacity, there will be an email sign-up sent via Eventbrite at the start of every week and both services will each be capped at 20 sign-ups (this process is subject to modification as things progress). If you sign-up and are unable to make it, you simply need to let us know so that we can make space for others.

What Other Safety Measures Will Be Taken?

All attendees are required to wear their masks at all times in the building (note: worship leaders and speakers who will be adequately distanced from you are not required to wear masks when leading, but are expected to wear their masks at all other times). All attendees will be required to hand sanitize as they enter into the facility (stations will be available at the entries). Our interactions will be intentionally touch-free (e.g., no hugs or hand-shakes for now, offering box will be in a stationary location so that it does not have to be passed around – although online giving is encouraged, etc.). Temperature checks will be conducted at the door and all attendees will be required to comply. Extensive cleaning and disinfecting procedures will take place prior to the service in coordination with the Evergreen Adult Daycare. If you have any signs or symptoms of COVID-19, please stay home and worship with us online (this will be reiterated every week).

Can I Bring My Family With Me?

Infants or children will be allowed to attend as long as the parents believe their children are able to properly follow the rules (however, there will be no children or youth programs). If not, then a recommendation would be for those with spouses to take turns attending. 

What If I’m Not Comfortable Attending A Service Yet?

We know that everyone has different levels of comfort and concerns right now, and so please do not feel pressured to attend. We will be streaming these services live via YouTube so that you are still able to watch from home. If you miss the service online when it is aired live, it will still be available to view afterwards.

A Pastoral Message

We understand that many of you are feeling anxious and we hope to do our best to facilitate a space of worship that alleviates some of your concerns. On the other hand, we also understand that many of you may be frustrated because there are now conditions and restrictions that did not exist before. However, I truly believe that the Lord has greater things in store for us, and I would ask that we all patiently wait for his timing to see what the future holds. One thing I have learned the last five months about our church is that we have an incredibly resilient congregation (evidenced by all of you who have not stopped praying since this pandemic began). You encourage me to confidently know that we will make it through these times as church one way or another. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. – Matthew 7:25

In Christ,

David

 

COVID-19 Update

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COVID-19 Update

Hello,

First, I want to say that I miss being together in person and seeing all your faces. However, there are three facts I wish to update you on when it comes to our physical gatherings:

1) The state of New York currently prohibits any religious gatherings (other than 10 or less people for a Memorial Day service).
2) All public schools (including PS41Q where we meet) are still closed.
3) Our decision to suspend in person gatherings was never based primarily on the above, but rather in concern for the safety of our congregation. (click to see March 13, 2020 letter to the church). This is a decision that will likely take some time, thought and process, for we as a church hold a responsibility to not just adhere to the laws of our government but also to love our neighbors well. I leave you with this quote from the theologian Martin Luther, who spoke these words during the Bubonic Plague of the 1500's:

“I shall ask God mercifully to protect us. Then I shall fumigate, help purify the air, administer medicine and take it. I shall avoid places and persons where my presence is not needed in order not to become contaminated and thus perchance inflict and pollute others and so cause their death as a result of my negligence. If God should wish to take me, he will surely find me and I have done what he has expected of me and so I am not responsible for either my own death or the death of others. If my neighbor needs me however I shall not avoid place or person but will go freely as stated above. See this is such a God-fearing faith because it is neither brash nor foolhardy and does not tempt God.” 

With Love,

David

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Pastor's Letter Regarding Coronavirus

Pastor's Letter Regarding Coronavirus

March 13, 2020

Dear Hope East Queens,

Many of you have messaged the last two days asking if we are going to have service on Sunday due to the coronavirus. I waited until now to make a decision for two reasons: 1) To be informed of all rulings from the city/state of New York; and 2) To listen to voices from our congregants but ultimately prayerfully hear from God.

Yesterday, the city of New York issued a restriction on gatherings of 500 or less that do not “maintain an occupancy level of at or below 50% of legal capacity.” Our legal capacity is 288 and we had been averaging this year between 160-180, which means our regular Sunday gathering would be legally restricted.

Even if we were to assume a decrease in attendance or implement a max capacity limit, I wrestled with if we were being true followers of Christ by not understanding the spirit of the restriction, which is the unified effort to slow the spread of this virus, especially so that medical facilities and professionals are not overwhelmed by more patients than they can care for. In light of the ruling, there were primarily two passages that I meditated over:

1)     God’s call to the Jews in Babylon to: “seek the peace and prosperity of the city...” – Jeremiah 29:7

2)     Jesus’ healing on the Sabbath: “Then Jesus asked them, “Which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or to kill?” – Mark 3:4

Jesus reminds us the true purpose of the Sabbath is to love others and “do good.” Even if you're healthy enough to withstand coronavirus, if the city is making a unified effort to prevent the virus from spreading to those who may be comprised, we as Christians are called to seek the city’s “peace and prosperity” in our act of goodness.

And thus, it is with deep conviction that we will not be physically meeting this Sunday (and we will keep you notified of the status of future Sundays as well). With that said, we will continue being the unified church through the following methods:

1)     On Sunday, at 10 am, we will email out a pre-recorded service that is uploaded to YouTube. Let’s stay connected together through viewing it at our regular service times of 10:30 am or 12 pm.

2)     Parents with tots/kids, Rose will send out a links of videos for your kids to watch.

3)     Parents of youth, Johnny will send out a link to a prerecorded message from him for our youth.

4) We will be collecting a special benevolence fund for those in our community who have been negatively impacted financially by this virus.

5)  We will hold live Congregational Prayer Meetings on YouTube on Thursday at 8:30 pm (search “Hope East Queens” and click on our icon for the live feed). We are one body, and historically it has been during times of crisis when the church has been at its strongest. Consider these words from Luke's historical account of the first century Christians: Acts 1:14 “The all joined together constantly in prayer.” Many years later, we have the opportunity to carry on the example of our early Christian brothers and sisters.

6)  We will educate ourselves regarding this virus, on how to stay safe and also prevent it from spreading to others (wash hands!). Here are some resources.

7)     Stay encouraged that we get to do our part in being the light in partnering with the city to combat this virus!

Lastly, I want to say thank you to the many medical professionals, researchers, and community leaders at our church who are on the front lines against this pandemic. We love and support you. Thank you and God bless.

With love,

David

PS If we do not have your email and you wish to be emailed our online Sunday service, please let us know by emailing: eastqueens@hopechurchnyc.org

The Master

There once was a young man who longed to mature as a Christian, but he needed to find the right master to instruct him on how to do so. He searched for many years, but he could not find anyone he deemed worthy. Until one day, he finally came across a pastor full of knowledge, spirituality and charisma.

The young man approached him after service one Sunday and said, “Pastor, I have been searching so many years to find you! Please teach me the ways. I struggle with lust, envy, bitterness, greed, and pride.”

The pastor replied, “I too struggle with lust, envy, bitterness, greed, and pride.”

The young man immediately felt discouraged. “How can you help me then? I have searched long and hard to find the one who can lead me to maturity, and yet I am realizing that everyone is just as flawed as I am.”

The pastor replied, “Well maybe now then you are finally ready to mature as a Christian.”  

Shame, Fear, Pride... And the Gospel

History tells us that whenever there are results on a large scale, there is shame, fear, and/or pride involved as the primary motivator. All except for the early Christians who were motivated by the gospel, the good news that brought rich and poor, outwardly and inwardly broken, and Jews and Gentiles together despite harsh persecution. Suddenly, the “sinners” could break bread with the “religious.” Shame had been broken. When persecution occurred, Christians rejoiced “…in the hope of the glory of God” Romans 5:2 (NIV). They had been set free from fear. Centuries of traditions of ethnocentrism that created divisions between race, socioeconomic class, and gender suddenly didn’t matter under Jesus Christ as their head (Galatians 3:28). Pride no longer controlled their actions.

If shame, fear, and pride are all things that entered this world as a result of disobedience to God (sin), then how can they be the way to the gospel? The answer is they cannot. As we saw in the early Christian church, the gospel was meant to shatter such things that have strongholds in our lives.

And so for practical purposes, if we wanted to commence a church giving campaign to feed the hungry children in Africa, what would that look like? Well, if the results are all we really care about, here are the quickest ways to get them:

Shame-based motivation would say something like, “We aren’t doing enough as Christians! We simply need to do more! We have so much and they have so little, how can we just sit here on our comfortable chairs and do absolutely nothing while these poor children starve? We need to give now!”

Fear-based motivation may go something like this, “When we get to the gates of heaven and see the face of God, aren’t you worried about what you’ll say when He asks you what you’ve done for Him? We need to help feed these poor children so that you can confidently tell God that you did His work when you see Him face to face!”

 Pride-based motivation may possibly say, “Let’s be the church that actually makes a difference in this world, let’s lead the way! Let’s show others how it’s done so that when they see our church they’ll be amazed at all the good work we’re doing for God’s kingdom!”

But gospel-based motivation is unlike any of these three, because the church-wide results may actually not set in as quickly. You see, to be motivated by the gospel, one cannot just have some transient moment of shame, fear, or pride, but he/she must be genuinely transformed by a message such as this, “See these poor starving children? What we need to realize is that because of sin, we were once poor and starving spiritually and destined for death as our punishment. But Jesus Christ had tremendous compassion on us, he picked us up out of our own helplessness, and because of his (undeserved) love we are now clothed with royalty. That is why we should now have compassion on others. Let’s help these poor children because he has first helped us!”

The Advocate

A young woman walked into a church on a Sunday morning. The sanctuary, which was a modest size for a place of worship, was empty except for the older man who was sitting quietly in the first row. She slowly made her way down the aisle to greet him.

“Excuse me sir,” she politely said.

He looked up and smiled. “Why hello there!”

“I’m sorry, but is this church still open?”

“Yes it is,” he replied, as he motioned his hands towards the space next to him. “Please, have a seat.”

She sat down. There were a few seconds of silence as she looked around. She then asked, “I’m sorry to ask so many questions, but where is everyone sir?”

“Ah, they’ve all moved on a while back.”

“I see.”

“But now I have a question for you. What brings you here this morning?”

She chuckled. “I was hoping to meet someone.”

“Meet someone, eh? And who might this be?”

“The Advocate.”

The man raised his eyebrows. “And what makes you think he’ll appear here of all places?”

“I don’t know, but I wrote him an invite to meet me here. Wishful thinking I suppose.”

“Funny you mention him, because I once knew a group who wanted to meet him very badly,” the man reminisced. “So badly they met together in one of their homes, tiding it up to the best of their ability, hoping that he would someday be their guest of honor. However, they were utterly convinced he would never appear at such a modest place. And so they held off their invitation.

“And instead, they pooled their money and purchased a building. And they gathered every Sunday, but they did not believe he would come for such few people. And so they spread the word to their friends and family.”

“And did others come?”

“Oh yes, many others. But they did not feel their guest of honor would be entertained. So they hired a leader who would give inspirational messages, a man of great talent and charisma. They thought, surely a man who could make the masses laugh, cheer, cry and smile could do the same for their guest. And their leader knew quite a bit about him, even wrote and published books.”

“That would’ve been a great opportunity for the group to invite him then!” she exclaimed. “Especially if their leader knew him.”

The man shook his head. “I said he knew quite a bit about him, I did not say he knew him.”

“Oh,” she said, and then giggled.

He continued, “And so many, many more flooded into that building week after week, but they still believed they were not yet ready to invite their guest. They needed more attraction. And so they purchased a larger building, this time a hundred times the size.”

“But they didn’t feel it was enough?

He chuckled. “But they didn’t feel it was enough. And so they hired musicians, the best musicians, put them on the stage, and surrounded them with lights and all kinds of fancy devices. The music was breathtaking. Tens of thousands would attend. Then came the social media platforms, websites, internet advertising, high quality videos, pictures, and music albums. They multiplied sites, dozens of locations, and now, the whole world knew about them.”

The woman frowned. “Let me guess, even after all that, it wasn’t enough?”

He shook his head.

She laughed.

“What might be so funny?”

“We’re sitting in that first building, aren’t we?”

He nodded.

She looked around. “So this is all it took?”

“No,” he answered.

“Then what?”

He smiled and replied, “Only an invite. That is all.”